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Thursday, 08 March 2012 07:20

Church walks fine line between love and hate

Written by  John Deem

Leaders at Grace Covenant Church say they didn't know. They didn't know that the organization, led by a man they'd invited to lead an anti-gay marriage rally at the Cornelius church this past Sunday, has been classified as a hate group by the Southern Poverty Law Center (SPLC) and other human rights organizations.

They didn't know that Tony Perkins and his Washington, D.C.-based Family Research Council (FRC) have built their anti-gay platform largely on claims that homosexuals are to blame for most cases of pedophilia in America. An FRC pamphlet, titled Homosexual Activists Work to Normalize Sex with Boys, put it this way:

"One of the primary goals of the homosexual rights movement is to abolish all age of consent laws and to eventually recognize pedophiles as the 'prophets of a new sexual order.'"

Perkins himself, in a 2010 article on the FRC's Web site, summed up his claims that homosexuality and child sex abuse were linked like this:

"While activists like to claim that pedophilia is a completely distinct orientation from homosexuality, evidence shows a disproportionate overlap between the two. ... It is a homosexual problem."

And last week, days before the Grace Covenant rally, FRC attempted to use the turn of a phrase to make its point about same-sex matrimony.

"Undermining Marriage? All in a Gays Work," proclaimed a headline on FRC's Web site.

Grace Covenant, though, says it just didn't know.

"There was no knowledge of that organization," John Edwards, spokesman for Grace Covenant, says of the SPLC and its hate-group classification of FLC and Perkins.

Perhaps not when the church — which draws about 2,600 people for worship each week — extended its invitation to Perkins to speak in favor of the North Carolina Marriage Protection Amendment, which goes before voters May 8. But church leaders were aware of the controversial stances of Perkins and FRC days before Perkins arrived in Cornelius.

Several Lake Norman-area members of other churches contacted Grace Covenant after reading about the rally in the Lake Norman Citizen's March 2 issue.

 



4 comments

  • Comment Link Baldur Friday, 09 March 2012 04:28 posted by Baldur

    I wouldn't put much weight with proclamations by the SPLC, which itself should be classified as a hate group - but they are right in this case.

    Perkins is wrong about most everything, and his hatred of both gays and pedophiles is definitely not Christian. Considering that almost all men have some sexual attraction to prepubescent girls (as found in numerous studies), and about 30% are attracted to girls at least as much as women, it is hard to credit the idea that gays could be more attracted to children than straights.

    It is discouraging, though, that even while gay activists denounce attacks on their own group they feel free to repeat falsehoods about other sexual minorities. It is pretty clear by now that pedophilia is a sexual orientation, with similar characteristics to straight heterosexuality and homosexuality. Research has been hampered by definitions of pedophilia that include both loving persons and sadists, and definitions of rape that include examples of violence, coercion, and loving, gentle relationships and pretend they are all the same. These false equivalences and terribly misguided models do not, however, change the underlying reality - that people who are attracted to children are not generally the same people who like to hurt children. (In fact, the research suggests that pedophiles are much less likely to abuse children than non-pedophiles.)

    Sadly, we can see that most gay rights activists promote hatred just as much as the anti-gay rights activists, and the churches are in the business of promoting hatred too. What a sad state of humanity! It makes me sympathize with the Prosecutor, Lucifer himself, who argues before God that all humanity deserves death.

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  • Comment Link Michelle Thursday, 08 March 2012 14:37 posted by Michelle

    I do need to correct one thing - my friend identifies as FORMER ex-gay, she is a very much "out" lesbian. I shared that in my description of her in order to draw attention to the BRAVE journey she's walked and continues to walk as a gay person of faith. I have great respect and admiration for her and regret that was misunderstood.

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  • Comment Link Michelle Thursday, 08 March 2012 13:50 posted by Michelle

    http://fullcomment.nationalpost.com/2012/03/08/kelly-mcparland-un-members-take-a-firm-stand-against-tolerance-for-gays/

    Interesting how, just as I was awaiting today's issue of the LKN citizen, I heard about this walk out at the UN. I continue to pray that religious people in America take a good hard look at who they are aligning themselves with.

    May the conversation continue!

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  • Comment Link drdanfee Thursday, 08 March 2012 11:36 posted by drdanfee

    Thanks loads for clearly pointing out the core behavior that got FRC and Perkins listed on the hate groups lists, i.e., propagating falsehoods about LGBT folks, with pedophila business just being one egregious example of many falsehoods frequently assumed/preached by FRC and Perkins to be absolutely true.

    We'd get a lot further in our conversations about this and other hot button public square topics if we held in common, anything like a shared basis and means for reality testing claims and preachments. With regard to FRC and Perkins, for example, some folks reality test by actually knowing real, live LGBT people who do not conform to Perkins' definitions (stereotypes, actually?). Other people reality test more formally by bothering to read the peer reviewed science literature from about six or seven recent decades of fairly solid, careful investigations or hypothesis testing. Other people reality test by coming out as LGBT and living honest lives that are very different ... productive, ethical, giving ... from Perkins' beliefs. Other people reality test by looking at the impact or results of adopting FRC-Perkins beliefs, i.e., being blind to real LGBT people, being deaf to their struggles with church and society prejudice/discrimination, hearts set cold and hard as stone against what we all share in the way of simple human needs for intimacy and bonding ... the list of useful ways to reality test is long and important.

    FRC and Perkins are negligent. They do not even reality test whether their closed negative beliefs really apply to real LGBT people, nor whether the garden variety animosities or fears stirred up will inevitably spill over on occasion to familiar news of regrettable violence.

    Alas. Lord have mercy.

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